took a major loss to realize stuff =(

[asiangl]

Well, it finally happend. After about 2 years the love of my life left me. Now i know there are hundreds or thousands of stories about how a partner left after someone suffered SCi, but that is not my point. my point in this story is that i realized many things after the break up. I realized that i was going through major depression and i was supressings many things after my sci. I wasn't ready and didn't want to deal with a lot of things so i kept them inside and just did NOTHING. I just played video games to subcontiously hide. The sadest part of this is that i lost someone very special to me. After the break up i began to change a lot of things. I use to think how hard it was to do things, but now i love to just do stuff. I just wanted to send out a message that things do get hard after sci, but take each day by day and positivity is key. I am now starting to do the things i should have done. School, consistent rehab and exercise and watching my diet, etc...... Life life, find love, positivity is key.

Life is like gambleing. sometimes your up and sometimes your down, but in the end we gotta play the cards we are delt.

take care all , George

[Juke_spin]

Originally Posted by asiangl

Well, it finally happend. After about 2 years the love of my life left me. Now i know there are hundreds or thousands of stories about how a partner left after someone suffered SCi, but that is not my point. my point in this story is that i realized many things after the break up. I realized that i was going through major depression and i was supressings many things after my sci. I wasn't ready and didn't want to deal with a lot of things so i kept them inside and just did NOTHING. I just played video games to subcontiously hide. The sadest part of this is that i lost someone very special to me. After the break up i began to change a lot of things. I use to think how hard it was to do things, but now i love to just do stuff. I just wanted to send out a message that things do get hard after sci, but take each day by day and positivity is key. I am now starting to do the things i should have done. School, consistent rehab and exercise and watching my diet, etc...... Life life, find love, positivity is key.

Life is like gambleing. sometimes your up and sometimes your down, but in the end we gotta play the cards we are delt.

take care all , George

That is a very nice, thoughtfull post, George. It must have been hard for you to bear your soul like that but your message is an important one for all, especially the recently sci'ed.

Be well and visit with us more often, there's something for everyone and we can always use your input.

Steve

[Tiger Racing]

Originally Posted by asiangl

Life is like gambleing. sometimes your up and sometimes your down, but in the end we gotta play the cards we are delt.

That about sums it up.

C.

[CapnGimp]

Sorry to hear that, it's tough. Share that info with newly injured folks, spare them the heartache. Continue moving up and progressing, you will be fine with your new attitude.

[cass]

Originally Posted by asiangl

Life is like gambleing. sometimes your up and sometimes your down, but in the end we gotta play the cards we are delt.

take care all , George

kenny rogers already wrote that song...

[Jeannette]

Sorry to hear that this happened, George, but you're right. Life isn't all grand and happiness, and you just have to go on. Here's hoping many happy things come from you realizing there were problems you could change and dealing with them.

[wheelz99]

george, welcome to the reality we've all had our first year post. you're one of the lucky ones who had enough self awareness and "frasos" to make some healthy changes. some guys never make it out.

you live, you learn, and now you'll be ready for the next one.

[RaeRae]

After my husband left me it made me stronger. He was my bestfriend and it tore my world apart, but in the end it made me more independent and have a whole new outlook. This didn't come right away because I was so devastated and broken hearted, but many months later his leaving made me the person I am today.

I'll still love the ol' fool till the day I die though. lol

Staying positive is the key, you're right!!

[maddog2020m06]

Sad thing about relationships. When they are good its great. When they are not working they sure are a lot of pain. Is it worth it?

[Timaru]

Originally Posted by jerryblt06

Sad thing about relationships. When they are good its great. When they are not working they sure are a lot of pain. Is it worth it?

Tiss better to have loved and lost..........