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Old 06-11-2004, 05:14 PM   #41
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I love a great tale where a giant squishes a gnat, and this has to be one of the top 10. Good show!
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Old 06-11-2004, 05:52 PM   #42
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fuente- Is it true that ignorance is bliss? You seem like the perfect person to ask since your so adamant about staying that way.

Although you thinking your posts make you some kind of leader, says your more delusional than ignorant.

Good postings Lar.
doesnt make me a leader, just makes me someone w/ a opinion that some dont like or agree with. but like i have said numerous times , i dont post to be politically correct.
but w/ the way you ppl lash out, i must have struck a nerve. im growing board w/ this now, so im done
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Old 06-12-2004, 11:13 AM   #43
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fuentejps,

Maybe this will help.

No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.

By first showing others (CC members, etc.) that you truly care and can relate (empathy) to their situation you gain trust. Once trust is gained people (CC members, etc.) will listen and take heed to your advice. This is leadership.

However, by discounting other's opinions, situations and circumstances you are simply distancing yourself in both credibility and accuracy. Rarely does one blanket cover all.

You have some genuine good qualities in that you have drive to succeed, optimism, strong family support system and an understanding of the value of good health. Your intolerance of others however who do not possess these same traits and structures should not be simply attributed to their character weakness.

Hey, I'm all about tough love. Larwatson is as well. The difference I believe is in experience, maturity and patience. We all don't run at the same pace and that's ok. We must however realize this, be tolerant of it and try to respect it. No one likes to be disrespected. I think that many CC members sometimes feel disrespected by your posts.

This has nothing to do with political correctness or popularity. It simply means that we should try to be kind to each other.

Onward and upward - Peace all.
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Old 06-12-2004, 04:00 PM   #44
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fuentejps,

Maybe this will help.

No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.

By first showing others (CC members, etc.) that you truly care and can relate (empathy) to their situation you gain trust. Once trust is gained people (CC members, etc.) will listen and take heed to your advice. This is leadership.

However, by discounting other's opinions, situations and circumstances you are simply distancing yourself in both credibility and accuracy. Rarely does one blanket cover all.

You have some genuine good qualities in that you have drive to succeed, optimism, strong family support system and an understanding of the value of good health. Your intolerance of others however who do not possess these same traits and structures should not be simply attributed to their character weakness.

Hey, I'm all about tough love. Larwatson is as well. The difference I believe is in experience, maturity and patience. We all don't run at the same pace and that's ok. We must however realize this, be tolerant of it and try to respect it. No one likes to be disrespected. I think that many CC members sometimes feel disrespected by your posts.

This has nothing to do with political correctness or popularity. It simply means that we should try to be kind to each other.

Onward and upward - Peace all.
chris, your ideas are noted. im not the most patient person, nor the most tolerant to certain issues. so your rite, there.
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Old 06-12-2004, 05:09 PM   #45
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wow, fuente admitting another person may be right...never thought that would happen...maybe you are human afterall

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Old 06-12-2004, 07:25 PM   #46
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High five to Chris and feuntejps!
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