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Originally Posted by rdf
CQC, what if you hadn't seen the deceased for years and years? Would that change your view on this?
Just curious...
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Just because I hadn't seen them wouldn't make any difference. All the more reason for me to keep the memories as they were. If I hadn't seen a friend/family member for 10-15 years, and they died, and I viewed them and they looked so completely different than I remembered, that's all I'll think about from then on of that person. It just changes the image of them for me.
When I die, I don't want anyone to associate the image of me in my coffin as a part of me or the memories we may have made together. It's unsettling.