When exactly do you know when you've gotten on with life

[St Elmo]

There’s not a spot where you’ve risen above your SCI, it’s a part of you now. Your’e in a new reality that only looks like the old one from the outside. You “rise’ above it by Accepting it, then Adapting your ways of problem solving from the one where ya did everything by yourself, to one where you have to make em happen around you by become sort of a manager, inspiring the AB types (walkies?) to do the stuff that you can’t and still getting what you want to happen, happen. That’s how you Overcome as much of this as you can, and discover that you’re gettin on with it. People will assist you, no prob, if you show, or give them a direction to go in.`