Great point, I am still learning it. Betheny, your right, I do have to remember to keep my mom's feelings and mine in perspective, mine come first, or atleast they should for the most part. I think on this particular issue the whole butting of heads happened because we both want the same outcome, even if it happens tomorrow or ten years from now, but we just had different ideas of how to go about it. Thanks again for everything. I hope all of your thanksgivings were wonderful.