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    Correct me if I am wrong, but I don't think he has to wait until the pressure sore is healed to start rehab. From my experience it is best to get into rehab as soon as possible. My husband had a pressure sore on his coxsys, rehab continued, wound care nurse looked at it daily. Had we waited it would have been months. She told me it would take 2 years for the skin to return to "normal"

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    For God's sake don't listen to BeeBee! Fight the fight! Get a GOOD lawyer to make sure your insurance provider is getting you all you are entitled to. They will do everything they can do to make you think thry will do everything they can, when all they really care about is their$! And keep on prayin'! If my wife wouldn't have done just that I wouldn't be here today to enjoy every sunrise, my kids and grand kids, my wife, friends, and A GREAT LIFE! Bless you and your family
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    I think Kittim is right on rehab. I was still on a vent when my rehab started at Craig Hosp. in Denver. Check them out! They don't believe in can't!
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    Help! Now they want to transfer my dad to a long-term medicare hospital

    Based on a family conference last Wednesday, I thought we had a plan in place that this hospital would keep my dad until his decub was healed, and then he would be transferred to Santa Clara. Now, even though I was at the hospital for most of the day, the lead doctor (who we went against by insisting that my dad be kept alive) waited until I and the social worker were gone for the day before he approached my mom to tell her that my dad needs to be transferred to this other facility (Kindred--a long-term ventilator facility that is funded by medicare) by tomorrow. My mom put him off for a couple of days, but I'm very concerned that this might jeopardize our chances of getting him to Santa Clara. Do you know anything about this? Santa Clara has said that they want to take him while he's still on the vent, but they do not accept open wounds.

    In addition, today I found out that they have him on a low air loss mattress but they keep putting his head up, and apparently this afternoon they had him sitting up out of bed, in a cardiac chair... SCI Nurse specifically said that he should NOT be on his butt until his decub heals. I asked the nurses about that, but they didn't agree at all....Do you have any professional guidelines or research literature that I could cite to get them to be more careful with his skin? They just seemed to indicate that what I was saying was my preference, but their experience was that the way they were treating him was fine....that's why I'd like some printed material to share with them about SCI Nurse's recommendations.

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    DorAnne

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    I'm hoping that the nurse will chime in but I wanted to say -- Insist on your your father's rights! Don't let them bully you around!
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    You will have to be VERY proactive in his care. State your wishes and his needs and be persistant. Unfortunately, not all ICU nurses are aware of SCI needs. Getting him up is great for his lungs and blood pressure, so I would think that was their plan, but not so good on his skin.

    I asked the nurses about that, but they didn't agree at all....
    When you know you're right, don't ask, TELL. But, be sure you're right. It's very easy to make mistakes early on and sometimes there are trade offs.
    Also, you really shouldn't leave him in their care for long periods. I know you should be able to, but if doesn't have an advocate there, things can happen fast.

    I've had dietary bring the wrong meals, leave meals across the room, alarms ignored, no turning for hours, wrong meds or meds left across the room, foley pulled out and left to drip, vomit left on the floor... And this was in a good, Trauma 1 facitily ICU. Nurses get busy or fail to read the full chart, etc.

    I wish the best for your family. This is a really hard time and you have to be very physically proactive while dealing with major emotional trauma. Is he able to talk yet? When he gets a speaking valve, it will help a lot in his care and his mental status. What about nutrition? If he is unable to eat very well, you need to ask about a feeding tube. Skin damage takes a lot protein to heal and the spinal surgery needs calcium, and just a lot of calories to heal.

    Take a look at the CARE forum. There are some Sticky threads with care guidelines and great information.
    BeeBee

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    The wound care nurse at the hospital should be your friend in this. Print the clinical practice guidelines on Prevention and Management of Pressure Ulcers in People with SCI you can find on as a sticky on the Care forum.

    Avoid going to Kindred at all costs. They are a chain, essentially a nursing home, and at least in my area notorious for their poor care. They know nothing about SCI, and less about wound care. He will only go downhill there. They take care of people with COPD and in comas on ventilators primarily. Call Santa Clara Valley back and ask to speak to someone with some authority.

    Call the patient representative at the hospital where you are. Complain about his care (ie, the sitting and leaving him on his back sitting) all the way up to the hospital director. Don't be put off. You or someone from the family needs to be there 24/7 at this point. Refuse to move your father. Request a meeting with the head nurse and director of nurses, the medical director and hospital director. They gave him the pressure ulcer, and if your father is on Medicare, they know they will not get paid for days of care that are caused by this anymore. That is why they are trying to shove him out the door.

    Insist that he not get out of bed. He has the right to refuse this (and anything else that is unsafe), so get him on board NOW. If they get him up or turn him onto his back in spite off his refusals, legally it is assault. You may have to see an attorney.

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    I am so sorry that you have to go through this, in this country, in this day and age. I can feel for you-we were given no advice at all during any of my treatment, etc.. Definitely make noise. Remeber that your father deserves the best care right now. Don't worry about hurting feelings. They will get over it. Good luck-sending positive thoughts your way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SCI-Nurse
    You or someone from the family needs to be there 24/7 at this point. Refuse to move your father. Request a meeting with the head nurse and director of nurses, the medical director and hospital director. They gave him the pressure ulcer, and if your father is on Medicare, they know they will not get paid for days of care that are caused by this anymore. That is why they are trying to shove him out the door.

    Insist that he not get out of bed. He has the right to refuse this (and anything else that is unsafe), so get him on board NOW. If they get him up or turn him onto his back in spite off his refusals, legally it is assault. You may have to see an attorney.

    (KLD)
    DorAnne, I've been following your questions and keeping your family high on the prayer list. What KLD says above is just stunning to me, and makes me wonder if you happen to know anybody in the media. The hospital doesn't need bad press. If I were you I'd do exactly what KLD suggests, and I'd also make it clear that I'm documenting everything that happens. They will hate this, or at least some of them will. I know from personal experience, though, that it really matters to be seen as somebody who is taking notes and taking names.

    I personally think it's borderline criminal to suggest that a family give up on someone so early after a neurological injury. These injuries by definition are not easy to categorize or predict, as many, many people here can tell you.

    The most important thing is for someone to be there 24/7 -- and it sounds like your mom ought not be left alone to fend off the doctors.

    Hang in there! We're pulling for you.

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    DorAnne, I've been following your Dad's progress here too. SCI-Nurse KLD and Kate hit the nail and I wish you and your family all the best dealing with this hospital.

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