View Poll Results: Would CC Members Benefit from a Employment/SSI/SSDI Board?

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  • Yes, I think it would be a great benefit for members.

    136 89.47%
  • No, most CC members, like myself, don't want to work.

    4 2.63%
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Thread: Why doesn't a "Work/Employment" forum exist?

  1. #61
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    I think Andy would be terrific as a mod in this new forum!
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    Teesieme,
    That's one HELL of a story,,, you really had some tough going, and I guess you know all too well what tough love is all about. I am working a little more and more, and I do alot of mechanical work, welding, and anything else i once did with ease. Yes it's been tough, and I've really only got my father to help me in and out of trouble. Of course he's brought a project home for me to help out now, and I'm off to read the riot act to him, sometimes he gets a little carried away. He almost refuses to beleive I can't do, me the dumb ass I am do that and more, guess I'm my own worst enemy. Hope you and your son can do better, sounds like he knows what he can and can't do, and what he wants to do.

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    The most devastating aspect of Bill's injury was losing his ability to work. He always did very physical work either pipelining or working with heavy equipment but had finally settled down driving a rig hauling into the States and across the prairies. He had bought his own truck and had partnered up with a fella that owned about 6 other trucks ... it seemed like a match made in heaven ... and then he got hurt !

    Things seemed bleak and then his partner suggested he do the dispatching for the company .... it took some determination on his part .. he had never so much as clicked a mouse up to that point but he taught himself to use the computer and utilize the internet and we thought he'd found his niche. Not ..... he got sick and stayed sick with a variety of ailments from pressure sores to a bad gall bladder ... his partner had to get someone else to do the dispatching and well ... the rest as they say is history. Even if he could go back to dispatching .. the drugs he takes now make his mind fuzzy, he has no stamina and has trouble concentrating.

    He does do some civic work ... he is a Town Councillor and does some work with the Rural Municipality sitting on various committees ... but its nothing compared to what he once did and even after almost 9 years it still breaks my heart to watch him "make the best of it" ! I'm probably going to be criticized for being sexist here but I've always believed that most men believe they "are" what they "do" (for a living) ... take that away from them and it devastates their soul . I have a feeling women by their very nature learn to adapt and find a fit with a little less emotional baggage .....
    ..... what do we think???? .... its okay .. you can hit me with your best shot ..

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    I think the forum is a great idea by the way ... and Tees {{{hug}}} .. for you!!
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  4. #64
    Originally Posted by Wheelieboy
    I am sure there are just as many people here who want to work as there are working
    Quote Originally Posted by Tiger Racing
    That's not the impression I get.

    C.
    I'll ask again.

    Quote Originally Posted by bob clark
    If I may be so inquisitive to ask, how are you employed?
    I'm forced to make some assumptions since I don't have any firsthand knowledge of you, your upbringing and current life. Be that as it may:

    What is your level of education? Do you work in the family business or have you been able, on your own, to secure employment apart from it?

    If it's the former, I'm curious to know how a child who grew up in a millionaire family is employed and just how much your employment has or is still costing your family? And how many alterations have been made on your behalf in the family workplace and how many "helpers" from your father's payroll does it take to keep you employed. And to keep you racing?

    If it's the latter, that is you doing it on your own, please explain to the rest of us how it's done? Maybe you could help here a little instead of just posting your self-righteous negativisms.

    As though I expect an honest and non-self-deluded answer.

    Someone such as yourself, who has been given so much and who has the nerve to question the "work ethic" of less fortunate others, especially post SCI, just boggles the mind.

    Perhaps, since my questions are directed to Tiger Racing, I should have posted this in the "Family" forum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obieone
    ! I'm probably going to be criticized for being sexist here but I've always believed that most men believe they "are" what they "do" (for a living) ... take that away from them and it devastates their soul . I have a feeling women by their very nature learn to adapt and find a fit with a little less emotional baggage .....
    ..... what do we think???? .... its okay .. you can hit me with your best shot ..

    Obieone
    I think the forum is a great idea by the way ... and Tees {{{hug}}} .. for you!!
    For once, Obieone, you and I are in compleate agreement, at least about the sexual identity/adaptability thing. I'm just not like "most guys"; not like most people either and I have no problem with it.I like myself (a good thing, as I've got to live with me) and I like being different and have done so without regret since my forties.

    Sure, the higher ed./work/ssdi forum idea is not only a great one but fits in with one of the major themes/ethics of the CC Forums.

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    the ability to return to work or work after injury has so many variables that it cannot be stereotyped.
    insurance is probably on of the biggest hurdles, it would be irresponsible to give up medicaid without a comparable insurance coverage. the number 1 cause of bankruptcy is medical bills in this country.
    type of employment before injury , can the person return to this work? many times this is impossible. the ada only protects you if you can do the essential task of your job.

    age at time of injury, if your older and have good benefits and savings from a lifetime of working and contributing to ssdi and your retirement plan, it may be counterproductive to return to work. life generally sucks after injury, make it less sucky by not having to deal with stupid employment issues is a huge plus. not having to get up in the morning and go to work in the morning is priceless is my book!
    chronic pain will keep someone out of the 9 to 5 workforce and school. they would have to be employed at places where not showing up at the drop of a hat is OK.
    living location and family situation is also another big plus or minus. if you live in the boondocks, you employment opportunities are limited.
    finances are a huge factor in returning to work. in order to work you may have to move to a urban environment where the cost of living is a lot higher the boondocks. education and living expenses while in college.
    having supportive family or being on your own is another deal breaker.
    Face it, family jobs are no different than living on state aid.
    Basically it all comes down to money, if you have plenty of money you can do whatever you want to do.
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  7. #67
    Quote Originally Posted by Tiger Racing
    That's not the impression I get.

    C.
    I haven't wanted to pile on but here goes anyhow.

    At a recent meeting of peer mentors, we were talking about the Big Three Questions:
    1. Will I ever walk again
    2. Will I have sex again
    3. Will I be able to work

    The order in which those questions are asked is usually determined by age and gender of the new SCI. So I for one think that work is paramount on the minds of many people who are newly injured.

    I just finished a phone call with a newly injured patient, work was all she wanted to talk about. Finding purpose/self-worth is a big part of coming to terms with this new life. I find however, that the system seems designed to discourage people from pursuing work as an option.

    Conflicting rules, misintirpretrations, uncarging beauracrats, etc. create a mountian so high that some (many?) give up in frustration or fear of losing what little they do have. Once you navigate far enough into the system that you finally have medications, equipment, PCAs, SSDI payments, etc on an even keel, how much are you willing to risk to go back to work?

    IMHO, the "system" is hostile to those who wish to break out of the cookie-cutter mold we've been placed in. I don't blame those who have given up or gotten so much misinformation that they think they can't work.

    This proposed forum would be a great place to begin breaking down those obstacles.


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  8. #68
    Quote Originally Posted by metronycguy
    living location and family situation is also another big plus or minus. if you live in the boondocks, you employment opportunities are limited.
    finances are a huge factor in returning to work. in order to work you may have to move to a urban environment where the cost of living is a lot higher the boondocks. education and living expenses while in college.
    having supportive family or being on your own is another deal breaker.
    Face it, family jobs are no different than living on state aid.
    Basically it all comes down to money, if you have plenty of money you can do whatever you want to do.
    You hit it dead on Mike. I live in a metro area and the opportunities are plentiful but the competition for jobs is ridiculous. I think the easiest way to get a gig post injury is through a network of contacts. Rolling around from interview to interview would get old quick. I think that we all can benefit from learning how to "pimp" the system.

  9. #69
    Quote Originally Posted by LaMemChose
    There has to be a way, but what is that way? For those like Lizbv/Betsy and Cass, who have navigated the system to return to work, their experience can be extremly beneficial. What works for some may not work for others, but to know someone else has done it shows possibility.

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    Thanks Mem. there are others, also.

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    Disclaiimer: sliced off the top of my finger last niht. creates lots of typos.

    You're supposed to drop the knife off the counter, and onto your bare foot, the instep, take it from an expert, I do it often. I hate shoes, too much protection.

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