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    i hate when people don`t understand my pain

    because of the neurophatic pain sometimes i am depressed and i fell like screaming.my sister is taking care of me since my injury.when i am in a lot of pain i cannot smile i am nervous and i complain .her answers are killing me.i am in a lot of pain too, you are not the only sci in this world etc.i just try to calm down ,and to understand only one thing.some people cannot understand this kind of pain .they are crazy .they don`t know what is real pain and they complain when they have a tootache.
    • Dum spiro, spero.
      • Translation: "As long as I breathe, I hope."

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    I'm sorry that you're in such pain... sort of wish I could take it away from you...you're not alone...we all go through some sort of pain but we have to take care of ourselves and be calm until the pain passes...Do whatever you have to do to release your pain...talk to someone and get some type of help with the pain...

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    thank you harley .what else can i do?just to calm down and to thank my sister and to my family .they are taking care of me.better to be home with them than to be in a nursing home.is just hard sometimes for me and for them too.as i told them ...better to be alive in pain or not ,good or bad,after i will leave you ,you will miss me.i hope they understand my pain and my feelings.
    to be onest without them i was dead by now.my loved ones just cannot understand what is sci and how this injury is affecting me. they knew me as a strong boy .i am still strong.i saw people who comitted suicide without a reason on the news.i told my family ....look at this guys,i should kill myself every minute after such an injury .all i need is love and understunding.

    THE LOVE CAN CURE PAIN........
    Last edited by adi chicago; 09-20-2006 at 06:48 PM.
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    i'm with ya, adi. i know ppl just don't understand our pain...mentally an physically. i was always considered an even considered myself STRONG, which i do still consider myself stronger than ever. but an sci takes a lot out of ya an it also adds a lot to ya, IMO.

    like ya say........
    better to be alive in pain or not ,good or bad

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    you need to find pain management, cause it not going to go away or get better
    cauda equina

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    no one in this world wants to live in pain.is just hard to find the right meds,.without side effects and to help regarding our pain.
    as i sad. love and understanding can be the key .
    when you feel loved,..... the pain is gone even if you need morphine.
    Last edited by adi chicago; 09-20-2006 at 08:26 PM.
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    all the love in the world isnt going to stop real pain, just as all the loce in the world is goin gto make anyone walk or give them back their b and b
    cauda equina

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    been almost 4 yrs now and still my own family does not understand the pain, Guess we just got to get use to it.

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    just listen to your hard.if i did not listen ,i was a killer by now.
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    i just rememer what jesus said.love and you will be loved.
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