ive been in a wheelchair now for 2 years . its been devastating to myfamily and me . my wife wants me to leave says she hates me and blames me for all the problems that have come from the injury . i could be totally independent if i had a roll in shower and a van thats set up for me . i try to keep a positive attitude ,but i get so discouraged with all the verbal abuse i recieve from my wife . we just moved from san diego to new mexico ,its not a state for sci surviors . i have 2 beautiful daughters , i want to move back to san diego but i dont want to leave them . where do i go