Sincerely, I admire you guys.
Personally i live and die each day from the success or otherwise by my bowel regimen. I fucking hate it. I'm hi quad, can't care for a colo bag myself, and my aides would fuck it up entirely. Transfers, showering, dressing time would destroy it.
i barely survive with an SP tube.
If I can't shit daily I suffer and when I do I still suffer. Poop time = hell. If it's not loose, it's not coming out and trapped gas kills me. Spend my days doubled over in pain.
I get maybe 2 - 3 days per month feeling good.