I'm c5c6 quadriplegic since 2003. My bowl become very lazy and take all my day without the feeling to be empty. My mum have to make manual extraction without stools don't come out and it's verry painful for me as for my mum who is become old and ill.

The first time my GI surgery suggested ileostomy for him colostomy will be a waste of time then i refused, it will be a mess and radical for me who weighs a fews.
After a hole discussion he suggested ascending colostomy, this will be the limit of my body.

Does it worth it ? have any one with right side colostomy ?
Also due to my lung weakness is it possible to make Spinal anaesthesia ?