Wanted to update as its been 2 years sonce my original post. I'm doing great and haven't had an infection I needed to treat since then. When I was experiencing all the uti's I was under extreme stress with a sudden divorce initiated by my husband , moving from Hawaii to Oregon and learning to manage everything on my own. I wasn't sleeping well, eating well and was suffering a lot of anxiety.
Now I am following the same bladder/mitro care of
1) cleanse area well with baby wipe and microcyn
2) Lube, cath without touching the catheter by holding it with its packaging
3) Before bed, Irrigate with 2 syringefuls (240 ml total) then instill 30 ml of microcyn
4) If any early signs of infection, take 1500 mg D Mannose 3 times a day and if worsens (while still no other significant symptoms) instill microcyn 2-3 X/day
The problem I am having now is scar tissue building up on the top of the stoma and its kinda hard to get through it. I have to wiggle the cathter as I push it in. the dr. said she couldn't trim it but would have to surgically redo it cutting down to the tissue receiving blood supply. I sounded like a big surgery and I admit I tuned out at that point as I almost died from infection after my last surgery. So I'm going to keep managing it as is for as long as I can.