My wife and I are both chair users, our 41st wedding anniversary was yesterday. I proposed In Death Valley on a cross country trip in our van with our dog and cat. We were married a day later in city hall in Las Vegas. It has been a wonderful 41 years.

Time and our disabilities have taken their toll but we continue against the tide.

From Ulysses and per Alfred Lord Tennyson:

"We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are-
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."