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    It is hard to know what she exactly means by "facility" as that can be a variety of things. I'd give her the benefit of meaning well and being ignorant, but the part about her not believing you are in pain is very offensive.
    I don't blame you for your feelings Cass.

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    my son's grandma wrote and said she wished i was in a facility with the best of care. WTF? i worked, raised my son and now i should be in a facility?? talk about insulting, depressing, ignorant...i still can't believe it.
    Do you tell this lady how much you suffer with pain and such? If so, maybe it came from a good place rather than a negative one. If she hasn't seen or spoken to you in years, then yes, it's an odd thing to say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cass View Post
    my son's grandma wrote and said she wished i was in a facility with the best of care. WTF? i worked, raised my son and now i should be in a facility?? talk about insulting, depressing, ignorant...i still can't believe it.
    Maybe she meant a spa in The Carribean? Ask her if she's picking up the tab for Christmas.

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    strange thing to say to someone.
    I wonder if she uses the word invalid too.

    Never mind though, you dont need a facility. no need to be insulted or depressed. I thought the comment about her dementia was funny.

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    Some of the messages you post on FB really make me worry about you; I have to admit.

    Other than that, where is she getting her info? Your son? You have a very nice home from pictures I've seen ... maybe they want to force you out for a piece of it? Then I'm always suspicious of family so what do I know ...
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    cass, any frequent flyer of these forums would/should give pause for concern for you. you've posted some alarming things about your mental state/quality of care that you're been receiving. also the recent increased issues with pain.

    does this mean you need to be in a facility? no. but you could benefit from better care all around, including your doctors.

    however, a letter from some hag you havent even spoken to in years doesnt deserve this much time and energy. next time she sends you something, if it isnt a check, throw it away.
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    The stupid bitch probably thinks because she is considering a nursing home that you should also. Shes what in her 80's at least dementia may be beginning. shes not as you. tell her wwhen is she moving into a nurding home- even better send her a list of nursings homes for xmas.

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    crypt, been here a long time. yes, this has been tough yr since pelvic pain started in april. geesh, i thought this was safe place to come and say my true feelings in middle of the night when pain has been so bad. now i don't think so. i have very good helper. she comes in couple hrs/day and nobody comes on weekends. i also have few issues w/doctors. so. i take your post to tell me to shut up. i will. sorry. i even looked at my posts over 4-5 pages. i didn't see much there but somebody in pain.
    Last edited by cass; 12-22-2012 at 04:46 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lynnifer View Post
    Some of the messages you post on FB really make me worry about you; I have to admit.

    Other than that, where is she getting her info? Your son? You have a very nice home from pictures I've seen ... maybe they want to force you out for a piece of it? Then I'm always suspicious of family so what do I know ...
    she gets her info from her deadbeat son (my son's dad), who i also have no contact with any more since i don't give him money. i will stay off fb late at night when i am in so much pain.

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