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    good interview questions for a live in caregiver

    What questions outside of the obvious should I ask a possible live in caregiver. Its tough trying to determine a person you will be living with and depending on by a formal interview.

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    Just a few (we use these for live-in or out equally):

    Why do you want to do this kind of work?
    Tell me about your work habits.
    Tell me about a time when you needed to do something at work that was unpleasant.
    Are you a morning or evening person?
    What kind of music do you like? TV programs?
    Do you smoke? Drink? Use recreational drugs?
    What would your friends tell me about you?
    Tell me about a time you made a mistake and how you corrected it.
    Will I find anything unexpected if I get a background check done on you?

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    Where are you currently living?
    If you are not hired, where will you be living?
    The biggest problem I had w/live-in attendants was they were more interested in a place to flop for a while rather than actually working. When they found another place to flop they would leave. Often w/o saying a word.

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    What to ask for

    A. References
    B. Experience in related care
    C. Criminal Hx - for your safety

    DO HOT hire a CG if there cute and sexy!!! Mistake. Been there and done that.

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    I'm a little bitter from my first live-in experience so these actually would not be a good idea, but I'd like to vent just a little.

    My instinct for questions at the moment would be:
    -- would you recognize this as a job where you are an employee rather than just a friend helping me out of the goodness of your heart when it is convenient?
    -- Do you think that just because something is difficult or distasteful it doesn't need to be done?
    --Do you think I am dumb because maybe you’re used to dealing with people who have Alzheimer's and don’t get out of bed?
    --How many hours a day do you need to spend on your cell phone?
    --Do you really think your two weeks of training lets you know more about my body and my needs that I do?
    -- Is it that inconsiderate of me to ask to live my life? Would you prefer I just never got out of bed so I don't need transferring help?
    --Do you think 9 PM is a reasonable time to expect me to go to bed, despite the fact that I last did so probably at age 8?
    -- Will you say "hmph” when I have the nerve to ask to go to the bathroom and then can't, as if the problems of my body are all just a ruse on my part to torment you?
    --Do you think it's reasonable to ask a live-in to work six hours per day over the course of the 16 not sleeping?
    --Do you think it would be polite and professional to call me selfish and stupid and mean just for asking for help with a few things?
    --Would you recognize that I still can feel them and intend to need them someday, and try to be careful therefore not to bang my ankles at every opportunity?
    -- How much do you usually spend on groceries, and will that change now that I am buying them?

    I realize this might make me sound like the witch. But I really did try to be as considerate as I could, as easy and low maintenance as possible. She was just unbearable.

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    Not a question but I would include:

    --Be cognizant of how important you are to my daily life. Call in sick with enough time for me to call in backup.

    Quote Originally Posted by Random View Post
    I'm a little bitter from my first live-in experience so these actually would not be a good idea, but I'd like to vent just a little.

    My instinct for questions at the moment would be:
    -- would you recognize this as a job where you are an employee rather than just a friend helping me out of the goodness of your heart when it is convenient?
    -- Do you think that just because something is difficult or distasteful it doesn't need to be done?
    --Do you think I am dumb because maybe you’re used to dealing with people who have Alzheimer's and don’t get out of bed?
    --How many hours a day do you need to spend on your cell phone?
    --Do you really think your two weeks of training lets you know more about my body and my needs that I do?
    -- Is it that inconsiderate of me to ask to live my life? Would you prefer I just never got out of bed so I don't need transferring help?
    --Do you think 9 PM is a reasonable time to expect me to go to bed, despite the fact that I last did so probably at age 8?
    -- Will you say "hmph” when I have the nerve to ask to go to the bathroom and then can't, as if the problems of my body are all just a ruse on my part to torment you?
    --Do you think it's reasonable to ask a live-in to work six hours per day over the course of the 16 not sleeping?
    --Do you think it would be polite and professional to call me selfish and stupid and mean just for asking for help with a few things?
    --Would you recognize that I still can feel them and intend to need them someday, and try to be careful therefore not to bang my ankles at every opportunity?
    -- How much do you usually spend on groceries, and will that change now that I am buying them?

    I realize this might make me sound like the witch. But I really did try to be as considerate as I could, as easy and low maintenance as possible. She was just unbearable.

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    Unhappy

    (I realize this might make me sound like the witch. But I really did try to be as considerate as I could, as easy and low maintenance as possible. She was just unbearable.)

    Random - These concerns are in no way extreme and you don't sound like a witch. I am very sorry that you had such a bad experience.

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    The main fault here lies with client and his inability to control the situation vis-*-vis the out-of-control roommate. That roommate showed no concern for his disabled roommate's need to have dependable, skilled care and that when found, the utmost must be done to provide the correct working environment. By causing the caregiver to leave, the roommate caused undue hardship for his disabled roommate.

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    Wink

    Quote Originally Posted by FreeBird View Post
    DO HOT hire a CG if there cute and sexy!!! Mistake. Been there and done that.
    There is one heck of a story in that pearl of wisdom isn't there, FreeBird?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FreeBird View Post
    DO HOT hire a CG if there cute and sexy!!! Mistake. Been there and done that.
    You can do it if you don't desire to own them. Much better to have a beautiful lady around than the alternative.

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