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    Obie, there has been a lot of great input here, especially from McDuff.

    I can't add anything except to say that I think credit counseling organizations are non-profit, and they get at least some funding from the creditors themselves because they would rather people make deals to pay back than to file bankruptcy leaving the banks/creditors with nothing. You shouldn't have to pay for credit counseling, I don't think.

    Best of luck! I'm sure you'll figure it out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scorpion View Post
    Obie, there has been a lot of great input here, especially from McDuff.

    I can't add anything except to say that I think credit counseling organizations are non-profit, and they get at least some funding from the creditors themselves because they would rather people make deals to pay back than to file bankruptcy leaving the banks/creditors with nothing. You shouldn't have to pay for credit counseling, I don't think.

    Best of luck! I'm sure you'll figure it out.
    Credit counseling does make you pay a fee--non-profits do have to pay bills as well. In this crap economy, many credit companies have been stacking on fees and not paying off the creditors. It has become an area of real fraud. If the debt is too high, credit counseling will not accept you.

    I am not saying credit counseling is bad--just that you need to choose carefully. It is not a quick fix.
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    Clark Howard and Dave Ramsey host TV and Radio Consumer Counseling Programs. They can also be found online at Clarkhoward.com or Daveramsey.com They offer advice and steps to take for dealing with credit cards, debt and the new rules/laws regarding credit cards. All of Clark's materials are free I believe, some of Dave's stuff is free but then you are "encouraged" to buy his book/program. People have found success with both programs.

    I'm sorry you are in such a tough situation. We have experienced tough times because of medical expenses too, we were helped one month by the Salvation Army. I wish you the best..
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    Quote Originally Posted by cheesecake View Post
    Credit counseling does make you pay a fee--non-profits do have to pay bills as well. In this crap economy, many credit companies have been stacking on fees and not paying off the creditors. It has become an area of real fraud. If the debt is too high, credit counseling will not accept you.

    I am not saying credit counseling is bad--just that you need to choose carefully. It is not a quick fix.
    The fee structure and the guidelines for credit counselling agencies might be quite different in Canada than the US though. In Canada it looks like the credit counselling fees are waived if you can't pay them.

    http://www.creditcounsellingcanada.c...2/Default.aspx

    Obie I had a family member who got themselves way in over their head with credit card debt while a student and had no means to realistically pay it off ever because the interest was spiralling out of control and just putting her further and further in the hole. It looked like the only option was personal bankruptcy. The credit counselling agency advised against bankruptcy and worked with her to first negotiate with the credit card company to forgive a giant chunk of the interest due and to also accept a reasonable payment schedule for the remaining debt.

    I agree with cheese cake that it isn't a quick fix. It still took my family member many years to clear the debt. But she was able to at least get the payments down to the point where it was feasible to pay them off. As well the credit counselling place was able to stop the collection agency calls and help her with money management skills so overall it was a positive thing. I don't know your personal circumstances but I definately would say look into credit counselling if credit card payments and other debt are causing a financial hardship.

    I wish I could offer more by the way of advice. Sending good thoughts your way.

    Edit: Try this link as well
    http://www.nomoredebts.org/

    My family member didn't pay for her credit counselling. This may have been the agency she used, I will ask.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cheesecake View Post
    Credit counseling does make you pay a fee--non-profits do have to pay bills as well.
    Ah, well, I was going on what I heard years ago, but I do understand that non-profits have bills, too; I just remembered hearing that they were funded by creditors, not consumer fees. Maybe it's both, depending on the agency and one's financial situation.

    According to the NFCC (National Foundation of Credit Counselors), at least in the U.S., some can get free counseling.

    What do NFCC Members charge for counseling services?
    It varies depending on the support for each member and state laws, but the majority of these services are provided at no or low cost to clients.
    Fortunately, according to OJ and CreditCounselingCanada.ca, Canada has some agencies that offer services for free, depending on ability to pay.

    Is there a fee for your service?
    Answer > CCC member agencies are required to provide services at no cost when the individual/family is unable to pay. All services are provided at no cost or low cost and must be fully disclosed to consumers prior to receiving service.
    ETA: Sorry, I see OJ already provided the second link.

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    A few years ago my son was in a pickle with credit cards. He was a student and thought he would be able to pay it back. There is a local reputable non profit agency that helped him.
    He paid a small fee every month which was well worth it. The agency was able to reduce the interest and negotiate to stop the late and overlimit fees that made up a large part of the balance. He would receive a statement every month showing how his payment to the agency was applied and the lowering balance on the cards. It took 3 years. Knowing the collection agencies would not be calling and not having to dread the mailbox was a relief.
    There are a lot of places that call and offer to reduce rates for a fee or advertise. They take advantage of people in desperate situations. Beware of these.

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    Sorry for your troubles Obie.

    I'm not sure if credit counseling is the way to go but it would probably be worth the exercise to have an objective opinion sit down and provide you with some ideas, options or considerations.

    Having worked in finance for 18yrs and having seen probably every possible scenario available the recurrent theme is that it seems, to the debtor, to be an impossible problem to dig out of. Generally, this is not true . With a plan and 100% commitment (no fudging with lottery tickets ) there is probably a reasonable and workable solution if family doesn't become an option.

    If it is done through family with a loan or similar arrangement my suggestion is to draw up a contract and stick to the terms. Borrowing the money doesn't typically cause the uncomfortable family dynamics it's the not paying it back that does.

    Good luck.

    Onward and upward.

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    I appreciate so much your support everyone - my situation is complicated by the fact that ... hello ... I work in a bank .. and there are codes of conduct and policies that must be adhered to as an employee - its all so humiliating. I'm supposed to know better .

    At any rate you've all been great as usual with your advice and kind words - I feel no shame .. well maybe a little shame .. I never ever took advantage (or even had the thought cross my mind) of my position there but the additional stress of maintaining my dignity and reputation has worn me down. I'm leaning toward family to be honest .... at least I'll know they love me while they wag their finger at me !

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    And thanks too for the links .... I'll check them out tonight when I wake in the night and can't get back to sleep ..... for the rest of you dealing with similar circumstances at least you know you're in good company ... at least I hope you do !!

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    in the states, as an underwriter for a lender, we look at credit cousling programs the same as a bk. with that said, go bk 7. get it done, rebuild then move on.
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    a little prayer for obione for guidence, peace and reasurance.

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