Cass, I am so sorry. That i so sad. NH can be such sad places to live.

NG,If you can bring him home, get information on all the resources, even if they are not right now, they may be right in the future. In regard to the Medicaid Waiver, my friend was approved in less than three months. I think it varies by state and by individual circumstance. It may take time for a spend-down and may not be right now because need to be accepted to Medicaid with a $2000.00 asset limit. The Medicaid waiver links are simply an example from a state, but you may be able to acquire this information online in a search under Medicaid for your state. There is a listing somewhere online which lists all states, but I could not find it. Good luck. It is nice to try to give him a chance to be home.