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    How to spot a devo?

    So this guy sends me a message on myspace that he would like to get to know me in spite of my condition and we began emailing each other back and forth. Right away he begans to ask questions about how I manage certain things particularly bowel care. Every email leads back to me being in a diaper even though I told him I don't need diapers. He says he once dated a young lady that was in a car accident on the verge of their breaking up and became a para. He says that they didn't have sex but he took care of her until she became confident enoughto be independent before finally leaving. He says he found it erotic to change her diaper and it was cute to see her in them. He even sent me a photo of himself in a diaper which totally freaked me out. Now he's saying he'd loved to be my caregiver so he could feed me, bathe me, diaper me and put me to bed. Could he perhaps be a devo or just a total nutcase? It's scary because he only lives about 1 and 1/2 hours from me. I'd hate for him to show up on my doorstep with a bag of diapers and a bottle of wine.
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    Doesn't matter the label, you discovered a whack job. Far be it from me to judge, but unless you find this guy appealing, cut off communication.
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    A devo or a nutcase? Umm try both.
    Surely you didn't tell someone on the internet where you live?
    You're still talking to him? WTF?

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    Of course I didn't give him any info, but you can find out anything on the internet. Before the weirdness, I gave him my email address which consists of my real last and first name. Dum I know, but it's too late now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Buffie View Post
    Of course I didn't give him any info, but you can find out anything on the internet. Before the weirdness, I gave him my email address which consists of my real last and first name. Dum I know, but it's too late now.
    While I can't say with any authority that will make you feel better ...even the really wacky ones on-line seem to be and have been harmless.

    I wouldn't spend any real time worrying about what you have already done.

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    Holy craptastic nutcase. Cut him off, block him from sending any emails, IMs, phone calls, contacting you in any manner and leave it there. No need for niceties with a guy with a diaper fetish. Live, learn and roll on.

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    DEVO ALERT!!! He is a classic case. Unless you want to be desired only for your disability and dependency instead of for your person-hood, avoid this guy like the plague and put him on your blocked list for future contacts. Hopefully that will be enough to avoid further contact. There are decent guys out there who will be interested in you...don't feel you have to settle for a wacko like this.

    (KLD)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buffie View Post
    I'd hate for him to show up on my doorstep with a bag of diapers and a bottle of wine.
    LMAO...

    PS..Get a new email, never use your real name unless it's your very private mail like your family etc. Also make it hotmail or yahoo etc, not your main provider.

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    Rofl!!!

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    Tell him U just started dating the local diaper delivery guy and are very happy and want to cease all contact with him
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