This Sticky was just a thought one day when I opened the “Life” forum and saw the “Suicide” thread and thought, “What about all of the happy people and things going on in people’s lives.”
My injury is C5C6 complete and I am about 2 and a half years post. I’m still new to all of this and feel blessed to have this website for all the info, resources and the people. When I first found this site I thought life was over and it wouldn’t ever get better, but I was wrong. Here’s a few thread’s that show how my life has changed.
1. Does it really get better?
2. The New Life
Many things have changed since then and I am the happiest I have ever been, even pre-injury. I have many things and people in my life that I have to thank for that, but the thing that keeps me happy is me. When I get bummed something in the back of my mind starts to slap me around and lets me know that I don’t want to spend my day like that. I maintain my positive outlook because I know the opposite too well and choose not to live day in and day out like that. Here’s a couple of things I do to keep my spirits up.
- Fresh air always helps.
- Positive people. Whether it’s in person, on the phone, internet and if no one is around or available put in a positive movie or t.v. show.
- Staying occupied keeps the mind busy.
- Pets, just watching the things they do makes me smile.
I’ll post more as they come to mind, but the most important aspect for me is thinking positive constantly. Even when negative things slam me in the face I just step out of the box and put things in perspective in a positive way.
- Exercise. The feeling you get when doing positive things for your body is incredible.
This Sticky should provide any kind of information on what you do to keep positive and happy, and also what kind of positive things are going on in your life.