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  1. We cannot marry or I'd lose my health care and my...

    We cannot marry or I'd lose my health care and my partner would lose his primary job, but as long as our wills are respected I should be fine.

    I'm surprised you encounter so much surprise....
  2. Oh, god, I cannot stand Florida. I'll leave it...

    Oh, god, I cannot stand Florida. I'll leave it to everyone who loves those swamps and can handle the bizarro political scene.

    I'm strictly a blue-stater. As a side benefit, blue states tend to...
  3. Thread: need advice

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    My SO is my main PCA and has been for 10 years. ...

    My SO is my main PCA and has been for 10 years. Works for us.

    I would never keep a PCA that was disrespectful after being warned. I've fired quite a few; my self-respect is definitely...
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    There is a distinction between "spouse" and...

    There is a distinction between "spouse" and "relative." My mother worked as a part-time PCA for me way back when, but I left home at 18 and never returned, so all we needed was a simple one-page...
  5. Quad looking for PCA info - Upstate New York

    I'll be moving to New York (first choice is Ithaca area) and have looked up various addresses and numbers of CIL's - my project for the week is to call them.

    Now for the reality - how long does...
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    There's still no payment of a spouse (or blood...

    There's still no payment of a spouse (or blood relative unless the relative does not live with you). It's pretty damned stupid. My SO has been my PCA for ten years now....

    Pay in the Twin Cities...
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    Tekniko, do you still need PCA info for...

    Tekniko, do you still need PCA info for Minnesota? I have 24 years' experience including current info.
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