Hey, if there's a handgun you fancy and the trigger is tooo hard to pull all you have to do is take it to a Gunsmith and have the trigger lbs decreased. It costs around 60 to a 80 bucks. I would recommend a revolver at first,and get a lightweight one like a S&W Airweight or Airlite...I have both. Get what feels good to you. Good Luck.
BTW. Since you're a beginner stay away from 1911s at first.