Gender undisclosed? It's elementary Ms. Watson.
Nice avatar. U2 is hands-down one of my favorite bands of all time!
I am very sorry to hear of your daughters paralysis Domosoyo!! I can't imagine how hard it is for her being 13! It's definitely a tragic event. I hope I will be able to provide some of the information you are looking for. Will she be able to cath herself if she goes through with the mitrofanoff surgery? That is one thing she should figure out. Good luck to your daughter in learning how to live with her new life she has. If she would like to talk with someone she's free to send me a message. My injury is a bit lower then hers so some things I wouldn't be able to relate but most other things I probably would.