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bberr
07-22-2004, 11:01 AM
Sometimes i am worry that my sons or my wife will experience a serious injury. I am not unknown with this fear, i had it pre-injury also but now the same fear has returned with more strength. If my sons experience something that can be dangerous in my eyes i can think about that in many houres, sometimes days. Driving car with my family and fear of been involved in a crash is a nightmare. I
Is it possible to get rid of such feelings? Those thoughts steal much of my happiness.
Bspill1
07-22-2004, 05:11 PM
Everything happens for a reason. Live life to the fullest. Do not dwell on what you cannot control.
I know it is easier said than done , but you have to start somewhere.
Brian C/5
http://bspill1.home.comcast.net
callem
07-22-2004, 07:04 PM
The lord said ''FEAR NOT''For I am with you always...
Always helps me, to remember this.
Live in the moment.
God Bless
darthe
07-31-2004, 05:04 PM
I read somewhere - "I have experienced many tradgedies and traumas in my life and a couple of them have actually happened."
I find I have to repeat "That's not happening."
I am terrified that my son will be victimised or will roll into water or will choke and I won't hear him or ...............
That's not happening, that's not happening.
Right this moment, we are safe and happy. Savor it.
Darthe
Music, to create harmony, must investigate discord. Plutarch
As a parent worrying about your children at certain times, is quite normal. I would think that because you have a SCI that you probably worry more now than before you were injured. This sounds like worrying, not a premonition.
PN
cathy j
07-31-2004, 07:06 PM
Sleipner,
Pray about it.
Cathy J
SoulMate
08-04-2004, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by dhues:
I read somewhere - "I have experienced many tradgedies and traumas in my life and a couple of them have actually happened."
I can relate to that one! http://sci.rutgers.edu/forum/images/smilies/smile.gif
Look like we all plague ourselves with fearful thoughts. Lately, I've been to busy to entertain many and I am grateful for that.
We are all faced with a series of great opportunities... Brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.